"I
am in a position now to be a voice for people with developmental disabilities,"
Aiken says. "I think all of us have a higher purpose for what we are doing.
The visible higher purpose for celebrity is to create awareness for issues
that need a voice.
I'm
just doing what I always planned on doing – teaching and helping children
with
developmental disabilities."
~Clay
Aiken
Clay
Aiken became a national sensation on the hit show American Idol. But while
music may be his bread and butter for now, Aiken's real passion is giving
a voice to children with developmental disabilities.
After his American Idol success, Aiken, a special-ed major, says he is
"in a position now to be a voice for people with developmental disabilities."
"I
fell in love with working with the kids," says Aiken, whose national tour
in support of his No.1 album begins Feb. 24 in Charlotte, N.C. "Kids with
autism and developmental disabilities think differently – their view of
the world is much more pure and innocent."
Aiken
began working with kids at the YMCA and then a local elementary school
where he was asked to teach a class as a substitute. Only after he accepted
the position did Aiken learn his students were autistic.
"I
also worked with an agency called Autism Services, which placed me with
the Bubel family in the Charlotte area," Aiken says. "They are such an
inspiration to me. I bonded very closely with their son, Mike, who has
autism and the whole family. I liked that they didn't make excuses for
Mike. They didn't expect him to get special treatment but simply to be
included like a normal citizen.
"As
I became more involved teaching, I saw children with developmental disabilities
being turned away from inclusion in programs and so my dream became to
fix this in some small way," Aiken adds. "There are so many kids and families
that need our support."
According
to Best Buddies International, a non-profit organization dedicated to enhancing
the lives of people with intellectual disabilities, nearly 8 million Americans
have intellectual disabilities, formerly termed mental retardation. The
number of individuals with developmental disabilities, however, has been
estimated as high as 10 million.
"Developmental
disability is an umbrella term that usually implies that a person has some
adaptive challenges – cognitive and/or physical disabilities — and has
difficulty managing his or her tasks of daily living," explains Wendy Wood,
associate professor of special education at the University of North Carolina
at Charlotte.
Wood
points out that people with developmental disabilities are not simply or
automatically mentally retarded.
"Individuals
with intellectual disabilities are typically identified by IQ measures,"
says Wood, who acted as Aiken's independent study supervisor. "But a person
with cerebral palsy might have a normal or even above-average IQ yet still
may have issues related to performing tasks of daily living. This person
would still be considered developmentally disabled."
Developmental
disabilities include:
•
Autism
•
Down syndrome
•
Intellectual disabilities
•
Cerebral palsy
•
Birth defects
•
Other neurological or cognitive impairments
Real
American idol
Diane
Bubel, Mike's mother, recognizes that Aiken's work with children with autism
isn't easy and says it demands "patience and true respect for these children
as people first."
"Mike's
autism is severe so one of his biggest challenges is communication," Bubel
says. "He cannot speak, and he can't always process what is said to him.
You can't just tell things like 'put your shoes on,' so it can be very
difficult. But once you have a child with a disability you have a choice:
You can suffer with it or you can choose the happy road. We chose the latter."
They
also chose Aiken to work with Mike. Bubel knew very quickly Aiken had the
right stuff – both as a teacher and a singer.
"Clayton
walked in the door with unconditional love and no expectations," Bubel
says. "It's rare to find people that open and understanding. And pretty
soon we realized what an incredible voice he had and just kept telling
him to audition for American Idol."
Aiken
recalls the support they provided. "Eventually I had to audition or she
wasn't going to leave me alone," Aiken jokes. "And the rest, well it worked
out pretty well."
Far
better than Aiken ever dreamed.
Not
only did he become a star almost overnight, but he believes his American
Idol success allows him to fulfill his true vocation.
"I
was already studying special education at UNC, but then American Idol took
me away from my student teaching, and I wasn't going to be able to graduate,"
Aiken explains. "I had to find another way to get enough credits to graduate.
So we figured out an independent study about non-profits and special education.
My assignment was to create a mock foundation that would work with kids
with special needs."
Aiken
completed the needed course credits and graduated. After the show his career
really took off and he saw an opportunity to make his dream a reality.
'Teach
the children well'
"After
the show it began to look more and more like I really could create a foundation
that helps kids with developmental disabilities," says Aiken, who will
appear on NBC's Ed this Friday, "not just in the Raleigh area but to help
kids nationally and internationally."
When
Aiken told Bubel he was naming the organization the Bubel Aiken Foundation,
she couldn't believe it and was moved to tears.
"We
want the message of the foundation to be inclusion – we want to 'open doors
and open minds,'" Bubel states. "We want people to get to know our children
and understand that by knowing them they will be better people. It's true
in our family. My daughter Emma is more patient, wise, understanding and
less self indulgent than most kids her age because of Mike."
Inclusion
is multilayered in its impact, positively affecting the child's education,
socialization and emotional well-being.
"If
a child with a disability is included with children who are not, it's not
just a social benefit," Aiken states. "It has a self esteem and emotional
benefit to be treated like other students. 'Handicapped' is a label society
puts on people. It's not something kids are born with. A child may have
a disability but the handicap comes from society when they tell that child
they can't do something."
Aiken
says the goal is to instead figure out how they can do that activity –
to include them in programs.
"Inclusion
also helps kids academically and they start to pick up on socially correct
behaviors," Aiken explains. "And the benefit is two-way. Kids without disabilities
learn so much – possibly more. Instead of just seeing a kid with disabilities
down the hall in a classroom, they get to learn about them. Ignorance leads
to prejudice. Inclusion provides them an opportunity to learn compassion,
acceptance and tolerance – all skills which make our society better."
Aiken
hopes he will be at his best when his tour begins but says he has a "higher
purpose."
"I
am in a position now to be a voice for people with developmental disabilities,"
Aiken says. "I think all of us have a higher purpose for what we are doing.
The visible higher purpose for celebrity is to create awareness for issues
that need a voice. I'm just doing what I always planned on doing – teaching
and helping children with developmental disabilities."
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